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Wheelchair Worship
Image: Close-up of legs and feet resting on a footrest and gray wheel of an electric wheelchair. Feet are clad in black patent-leather maryjanes with 4-inch heels, laced with ribbon. When this...
View ArticleDoms Don’t Cry
Mainstream femdom plays into the notion that female dominants are invulnerable to emotion, with images of cold ice-queens who endlessly berate their submissives, referring to them as worthless or...
View ArticleOne of the Nineteen
I spent one morning in high school leading my best friend around on a leash. Nothing fancy–just a length of cheap satin ribbon, hand-sewn around his neck with a long tail left over. I walked him down...
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The Cost of Devaluing Male Submission: One Token
The BDSM blogosphere has been all aflutter lately about the devaluation of male submission. And it’s about fucking time. Because the kink scene treats male subs as if they are unwanted, uninvited...
View ArticleCorpus
Today is Love Your Body day. I feel like a fraud talking about loving my body today–I don’t particularly love it. You see, my body and I have a complicated relationship. Right now, as I’m writing...
View ArticleQuestioning
I have recently jumped back into the wonderful world of dating. I have to educate people in my personal life, which is incredibly emotionally exhausting. Not only does it require me to be immediately...
View ArticleDysphoria
I want to have a penis. There, I said it. This is not a new coming-out. I’m not a trans man. I don’t want to take testosterone, I don’t want to transition, I don’t want to cut off my breasts or sew up...
View ArticleGuest Post: Staying In on Coming Out Day
Last year I wrote my own post here for National Coming Out Day, on why it’s important to me to be out. This year I wrote on some social media sites about why I would like anyone who feels safe doing so...
View ArticleDating and Dominants and Dominance and Dating
I’ve been single for well over a year now, and dating has been proving to be an exceedingly difficult and troublesome task. Part of this is because I’m not quite sure what I want; an unusual experience...
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